I just recently helped out a friend to get a new Pomeranian puppy today. I was excited. I always relish and support people who decide to take on or adopt dogs. I think dogs are the best animal companion ever! I always share their happiness cause I've experienced it thrice and it's always a euphoric feeling especially if you've connected with the dog.
Unfortunately the cute female pomeranian that we got was a bit shy and fearful. She played around in her familiar environment, but when she was taken into her new home, I got a feedback that she was scared. They didn't know if she was sick or not. Her ears tend to droop and she was immediately taken to a veterinarian. I also consulted mine. Both feedbacks were that it's nothing serious and she's just trying to adjust. Physiologically, they say ears do take time to be pointy especially for some puppies. I don't know but according to some web sites, it's something to do with teething. I'm no veterinarian. I sincerely wish I am, but I do think the pup is just trying to absorb new surroundings and new people. As long as she's eating and she's not being nauseous, I think she's fine.
But I also remember truly fearful dogs that do take time to adjust. Case in point: Bruce.
Here are some things that I did that made him a bit better. Some are also shared by his trainers in his dog school. Most of these are not scientifically proven. It is just based on my humble experience and advice.
1. Use Food
Unfortunately the cute female pomeranian that we got was a bit shy and fearful. She played around in her familiar environment, but when she was taken into her new home, I got a feedback that she was scared. They didn't know if she was sick or not. Her ears tend to droop and she was immediately taken to a veterinarian. I also consulted mine. Both feedbacks were that it's nothing serious and she's just trying to adjust. Physiologically, they say ears do take time to be pointy especially for some puppies. I don't know but according to some web sites, it's something to do with teething. I'm no veterinarian. I sincerely wish I am, but I do think the pup is just trying to absorb new surroundings and new people. As long as she's eating and she's not being nauseous, I think she's fine.
But I also remember truly fearful dogs that do take time to adjust. Case in point: Bruce.
Here are some things that I did that made him a bit better. Some are also shared by his trainers in his dog school. Most of these are not scientifically proven. It is just based on my humble experience and advice.
1. Use Food
- Dogs need food and they love food. It's just finding the right opportunity and the right treat for your dog. Treat dogs differently. Some dogs like apple, some hate it. Harvey doesn't eat banana but he loves apple. Bruce practically eats anything, but he's more of a banana guy. Chivas doesn't eat any fruit, he's more of a kangkong dog. If a bone doesn't work, try to find something with enticing aroma. Freshly cooked liver, heated dog food, freshly cooked beef cubes or any food (that's safe) that gives off a powerful and flavorful aroma. Dogs' sense of smell is strong. You need aromatic food to entice his senses and then work on the visual. Gastro-intelligence in dogs are kind of low. Food is a major tool to entice them.
- What I did: During lunch time if you want your dog to move around, use food. Put the container in a spot you'd like him to be. Then if he goes there, encourage him and say his name in a very positive tone. Sometimes give him extra. He will translate his food reward into something good. He will learn.
2. Use his name in a positive tone
- Dogs really don't understand the meaning of their names. They just hear it and they depend on the tone. If you get impatient and tend to call his name in a threatening manner, you're contradicting his progress. A very stern and aggressive tone will make him think twice.
- If he does something progressive, repeat his name again while giving him a fabulous treat.
3. Expose him to people and other house dogs.
- Visit him all the time and encourage play. Expose all the people in your household. Encourage him to move by saying his name. If he won't budge, there's still another day. Always try to interact with the dog even if he won't react positively for the day. Consistency and perseverance are essential.
- If you have other dogs, so much the better. Sometimes fearful dogs get encouraged with other more sociable dogs. Use the sociable dog to show him that you can be trusted. Bruce initially got confidence from Harvey. Whenever I went and played around with Harvey, he would look and follow us. Eventually he learned how to follow Harvey without me and began to explore the grounds on his own.
4. Take a walk
- Develop a schedule to walk him around the house then eventually outside. If he doesn't progress beyond the street, that's still fine. Do it again and again until he gets used to it until he expands and goes beyond that street. If he wants to go back to the house, encourage him and use his name to come along. Never threat. If he really doesn't like, well there's always tomorrow. The importance is to expose him everyday no matter how small the progress is. Walking is one of the best activities a master and a dog could share.
5. Do not use force
- Fearful dogs will teach you to be patient. Do not be discouraged if he won't show any massive signs of progress for the day. Nobody said it would be easy. Much of the work and repetition would be initiated by the master. If it doesn't work for the day, save the energy for tomorrow. There's no use of pulling the leash and getting him to move by force. You would just end up traumatizing. They key is happy repetition and rewards for the smallest step or improvement.
6. Touchy and supportive are 2 different things
- The trainer said that if a fearful dog gets scared and hides behind you should NOT HUG and try to comfort him in such a way that's telling him it's okay to run and hide. If you tend to pet him or hug him while he's hiding, it might translate that he's doing a great job. False comfort will tell him that it's okay to be scared all the time.
- If he gets behind you or run away, follow him and urge him to come out. Do not pet. Use his name, appropriate tone and food to lure him back. If he doesn't walk, slightly try to nudge the leash (not entirely pull) and use his name to keep on moving. Use the familiar term "Let's go or come on." Continuously call his name, nudge at the leash, give him rewards for acknowledging you and try to move. Never shout his name, utter frustration or pull the leash.
- If he's hiding, keep yourself visible and use aromatic food to draw him out. If you're done for the day, let him be. Leave the food and water outside. He would eventually get out of his hiding spot.
7. Listen to the Radio
- Some dogs find comfort listening to music. Promise. In my case, music from 96.3 works wonders. They sleep instantly with a pleasant music on and they associate happy melodic songs to happy times.
- In my case, ballad music calms nervous dogs. Put it in low volume first and gradually increase to the average volume.
8. Sunlight
- This is a suggestion by one of our veterinarian friends. Expose your dogs to healthy morning sun because for some reason, sunlight helps the dog's disposition. I don't know the scientific truth to this, but I'm not sure if you've observed your dogs indulge in sunbathing form time to time. Bruce and Harvey do it almost every morning. They pick a spot in the garden and sunbathe there, calmly as if they're in the French Riviera. Sometimes my mom would shoo them way in the fear of them having heat stroke, but they do look for heat and sun sometimes. Seeing sunbathing dogs are weird, but couldn't be that bad, right?
9. Visit a veterinarian. Get some medicine.
- If things don't really change and you see your dog get thinner, maybe it's time to get him to the vet. He might be feeling something very uncomfortable, an infection of some sort. Veterinarians are still the best person to assess your dog medically. They might prescribe vitamins to keep him energized and give him pills to calm down if all else fails. They might share a thing or two to help your dogs overcome fear. Droopy ears, dry notes, constant shaking are something they can diagnose and address.
10. Hire a dog behavior specialist or trainer
- This is to teach you and the dog what to do. If all else fails, a specialist or a trainer may have fool proof methods to share. They've experienced working with different dogs before and handling fearful dogs is one of their top cases for sure. If you don't have time, they can do the rehabilitation or training for you. In a way they can assess your dog and assess you at the same time if your methods of encouraging are correct.
These are just some of the things that I did for Bruce and Chivas that might help your case. Again, these are not scientific, but I've proven to myself that it works. Well, not all dogs are the same, but wouldn't hurt trying these. I've exposed Bruce to all 10 though not at the same time and he wasn't the same pup I've met 5 months ago. With all these methods, genuine love and trust form the foundation, therefore a must. I guess these methods wouldn't successful if there were no love and trust to begin with.














